Thursday, April 3, 2008
TCS Presentation
Olivia-
I grew up always feeling different because I didn't look like my family. And I held on to a lot of resentment because of how I felt and the way I looked. When I was much older I had learned to accept my difference but never really letting go of the anger of my childhood. And honestly when I became pregnant I was so excited that I would have a "perfect" baby and not feel quite so different, so you can imagine my feelings when I had Mason. I felt that I had done something to harm him.
The day he was born was the first day I have ever heard about TCS. And when the geneticist told me I had the genetic traits as well, suddenly this wave of emotion came over me. All those years of pain and suffering came back and I finally understood and was able to let go of the past.
Today I am so grateful to my higher power for bringing Mason into my life just the way he is. I am thankful that I can explain TCS to him and he will not have to grow up the way I did, and that we can go through it together. If I could go back I wouldn't change one thing about my past, or my present and I am really looking forward to the future.
-Jess
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Monday, March 24, 2008
Lessons
Just some of the lessons I want to teach my son:
To feel and show love
Imagination is key
It's fun to read
Give only when you can expect nothing in return
Hugs can fix almost anything
It will always be OK to kiss your mother
Smile
Remember "Please" and "Thank you"
It's OK to Jump on the bed
Real men DO cry
Always let an animal smell you before you pet them.
When you say "Sorry" mean it
Be true to yourself
Respect your elders
Laugh
Count you blessings
As long as you TRY you can never FAIL
Live one day at a time
You are perfect just the way you are
Stop to smell the roses
Always look both ways before crossing the street
Patience
Treat other people the way you want to be treated
There are such things as soul mates
Follow your heart
To know the I will love you no matter what and you will always come first in my life.
Have fun
An apple a day keeps the Dr. away
In writing all these lessons down for my son it makes me think of the ones that I don't do or have never learned. But if I can teach my son just some of these basics I think I will have done a pretty good job as a mother.
Monday, March 17, 2008
New Bed

So now I just need to find the strength to take apart the crib. I remember when I first put him in that crib. He looked so small and helpless. Now he is an independent, smart, strong willed little boy.